touch comes before sight, before speech. It is the first language and the last, and it always tells the truth

Margaret Atwood

MASSAGE

Why massage?

Being relaxed and present is a luxury item of our times. Listening to and understanding one’s body is a knowledge not many people master.

We usually tear our bodies. Improve, change. Watch hard, invent a new regime. We criticize the body for what it looks like or how much it can handle. The body should function well, be durable and not break.

Do you usually listen to signals your wise body sends to you? Do you hear all the clues it reveals in front of you? Do you feel everything your body is trying to convey and tell you about? About what you feel, what you want or do not want, what is too little and what is enough…

mindfulness
yoga nidra

Most often we are taught to think and ignore what the body says. Instead, we should “keep a lot of balls in the air”, have more energy in training, become more efficient, more skilled and be able to handle our emotions. That’s right, deal with it. Do not feel. We collect bags of tension, unexpressed stress, anger or sadness, and carry them with us through everyday life. We are the masters at dampening what we feel. We might think that it is possible to “run that out” with another marathon or a hard workout at the gym. A lot, of course, it works. But the second part remains and hardens undetected within us. We think we have control, but on a worse afternoon the hard shell starts to crack and emotions run out. We can not always understand or simply let it take place until it is over.

Being relaxed and present is a luxury item of our times. Listening to and understanding one’s body is a knowledge not many people master.

We usually tear our bodies. Improve, change. Watch hard, invent a new regime. We criticize the body for what it looks like or how much it can handle. The body should function well, be durable and not break.

Do you usually listen to signals your wise body sends to you? Do you hear all the clues it reveals in front of you? Do you feel everything your body is trying to convey and tell you about? About what you feel, what you want or do not want, what is too little and what is enough…

 

when you touch a body, you touch a whole person, the intellect, the spirit and the emotions

Jane Harrington